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My parents taught me always to be respectful and tolerant to other people. You may never know what's happening in a person's mind and why they do what they do. To avoid any trouble or conflict, it's better to have an outgoing [temper|grudge|personality|keep|terms|put|impression]and be likeable.
Sadly, I was never a sociable kid. I preferred staying indoors with a book rather than going to the playground with other kids. Then I grew into a more reserved and shy man.
At university, some of the students told me that I gave the [temper|grudge|personality|keep|terms|put|impression]of an unfriendly and withdrawn person. That was shocking, and I couldn't agree. In every difficult situation, which happened a lot at university, I tried to [temper|grudge|personality|keep|terms|put|impression]others first and not to think about myself. I pushed myself to take part in social events and helped others whenever needed. On the other hand, I was told by several people that I had a tendency to hold a[temper|grudge|personality|keep|terms|put|impression], that I couldn't forget being not invited to a party, or that I took innocent jokes too personal. Maybe, they were right, and something was wrong with me. Surprisingly, it took me quite a long time to realise that the only wrong thing I did was pretending to be someone I wasn't. Respectful, reliable, but shy and sometimes insecure. That's who I was. And I only felt the biggest happiness when I finally came to [temper|grudge|personality|keep|terms|put|impression] with myself.